Category: relationships

I’m going to make this quick as I’m at the library and left my phone in my car. Normally, it wouldn’t be a big deal, but the kids are in my custody these few weeks as their dad is going through some medical treatments. So I need to be available even though they are teens. […]

I’ve stopped dating. I talked to my therapist about this and she agrees this is a mindful decision rather than when I wanted to give up a while back when frustrated. I discovered what I really wanted out of dating was to not feel lonely. I felt lonely in my marriage; I’ve felt lonely in […]

Hi friends! I’ve been busy. I hope you’ve been well. I haven’t felt like blogging, because I typically blog about my growth journey and I don’t feel I’ve grown much recently. But that’s not true. I’ve been dating. And that’s brave. At least that’s what other people tell me. It’s been an emotional journey. Ups […]

I recently joined a Singles over 40s group on Facebook. Not so much to find a romantic partner as much as having something to do on the nights I get lonely (when my kids aren’t with me). The group has a lot of different events throughout the week. One of the women posted a message […]

There could, perhaps, even be a 3rd one, who knows. I’ve stopped (paused?) reading Nietzsche, as I’m struggling to get through the misogynistic bits. I’m sure there are additional bits of wisdom in there, however I tend to think those who think less of women as idiots, however perhaps he only has the limited view […]