Category: Stuff N Fluff

I had to work Saturday. It was the first Saturday we were open, and we got no calls. I had today off and was supposed to take my car in for inspection, and Lucy to the vet, but I didn’t get enough sleep and so I canceled those appointments and slept half the day. I’ve […]

Thank you all for your encouraging words, about my looks, my hair, body positivity, kindness, etc. It has helped a little. And I appreciate that a lot. I will respond to your comments soon. Today I wanted to talk about naps. This last week I’ve been taking a nap from 5:30 – 7:30pm and sleeping […]

The post title is probably misleading, as I don’t have shame about the divorce. Rather, about several other things. And, in fact, my thoughts have been marinating in this shame. What am I ashamed about? Well, in my last post I wrote about my weight problem, and that is my primary shame. This is a […]

One year ago I moved out of my ex-husband’s house and into my own apartment. In the state of North Carolina, you must live in separate residences for a year before you can file for divorce. I file for divorce on Tuesday (it’s the weekend and then there is Memorial Day, so Tuesday is the […]

Happy Mothers Day! This was supposed to be a post about abortion (I know, ironic), but I just can’t bring myself to write about it. So many feelings, not enough coherent thoughts. It’s too heavy of a topic for me to tackle right now. So, instead, I’ll tell you yesterday was a success. The Kentucky […]